Personality Profiles

New Page! TRANSFORMATION of a Narcissistic Sociopath

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Fiery Sunset tallThis NEW amazing blog page is about the miraculous transformation of Jess, the Reluctant Villain, into Jess, the Transformed.

This page reveals that no matter whether you are in a relationship with a narcissistic sociopath or are suffering from this personality trait, there is always opportunity to change your life for the better.

The information is a compilation of blog posts and private emails between Jess and Truth. As you read them you will see the subtle shift through  Jess’s seeking, wondering and asking questions, until the miraculous moment when he has a lightning bolt experience that turns his thinking and life around.

Might this dialogue help transform your life, too?

READ ABOUT JESS’S TRANSFORMATION

The ‘WHAT DO I WANT?’ Challenge for YOU

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My challenge to you and something to consider no matter your situation or life challenges: What do you want? Really want? What do you want deep down within you that is so buried you can barely sense it?

I challenge you to give much thought to this question and to make your own What do I Want? list, and then go deeper with your thinking. Drill down to the real want. This might take some time to get to the real wants instead of the superficial ones.

I ask you to consider this as you make your list…

If you could place an order, like from a menu, knowing it would be brought for you, what would you ask for? What would you like to do on this earth in this human experience while you are still here to do it? What will you regret if you don’t do it while you’re alive in the physical? While you have the chance? What do you want?

I suggest something that you might consider even more challenging for you: Don’t do this alone; ask for Divine Guidance for assistance with this challenge, for that is where your True power lies – going to where the answers and solutions are – going to Pure Intelligence that is yours to access continually. See how your wants might change when you do this in co-creation with your Creator.

LIST what effects in your life displease you or are less than desirable and you want to change. Then list your dreams.  If you could have whatever you order from the menu of life, knowing you would have it, what would that be?

Truth

Link to blog post: YOUR POWER TO CHOOSE

RECLAIM YOUR POWER TO CHOOSE what is BEST for YOU

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“Free will is your gift from the Creator. Your power lies in your freedom to choose. No one can take that power from you unless you allow it. Choose well. Choose from your unlimited supply of options and answers provided by the Divine, for you.” ~ Divine Message

When embodied, this Truth of your power to choose is a life-changer.

Analyze whether or not you are willingly or unwittingly giving away your freedom to choose to someone else, and if so, why?   Fear?  Intimidation? Lack of confidence?  Analyze why you make less than desirable choices, then take action to take to release those hindrances, and the greatest – realize and accept the wisdom of continually calling upon The Great Wisdom to guide you in the right choices for your highest good. This is the foundation on which you develop your Personal Life Plan. This analysis is to help you become better aware of the Divine Gift available to you through your freedom to choose, and your connection with the Power of the Universe that knows all.

Reclaim Your Power!

The power to choose for yourself is yours alone.

Quote from The Way of Mastery:

“You all know perfectly well that sometimes you seem to be compelled—and the ego wants you to believe that you are compelled—to certain actions, certain feelings, certain choices, certain perceptions, certain statements by something that surely exists outside yourself. This is never true.

  •  In no circumstance is there anything of creation that has the power to dictate to you the choice you will make.
  • No one has the power to create your experience.
  • No one has the power to limit your experience.
  • And nowhere in the laws of God has it ever been written that you must conform your experience to the choices of another.”

~ Jeshua Ben Joseph, “The Way of Mastery”

Think about what that signifies! That means you are not impotent! You are not a victim being blown about by circumstances like a leaf in a storm with no control over its direction. Instead of being driven by events, you are free to choose the course of your life by using the power of the Universal Mind That Knows All, and even more importantly, knows you, intimately.

This means you are connected with the infinite field of pure knowledge, pure intelligence, out of which all things and all possibilities arise, and you have the freedom to choose what that is. But the indispensable factor is that you have the intelligence of the Great Mind at your disposal so that, IF YOU CHOOSE, your choices can be made, not by guessing and hoping, but from the Wisdom of Divine Guidance flowing through you.

Wow! That is power!

So then, here is your choice:

“You can go on forever exactly as you are now. Or you can allow the Mind of God to flow through you, carrying you to an ever-greater expansiveness and deepening your awareness of the infinite loveliness of the power of the Mind of God.” ~ Jeshua Ben Joseph, “The Way of Mastery”[iii]

The Power to Choose is called the freedom law, because only you have the power to choose for yourself, unless you mistakenly give away your power.  That, too, is a choice.

What the quotes are saying is that Divine Communication/Connection is a powerful tool for you to use to build the life you want because that is where the guidance and the answers are, and so that you streamline your efforts to what is right for you, not just stumbling around with ‘best guess’ and wishful thinking. Your power to choose wisely is through your communication link within Pure Intelligence, the Mind That Knows All.

YOUR GREATEST POWER IS TO CHOOSE IN PARTNERSHIP FROM WITHIN THE GREAT MIND – PURE INTELLIGENCE

The Power to Choose is the tool you use to develop your life plan. We rarely acknowledge the power and control we have over our own lives. We usually feel adrift as if life is pushing us along, or other people influence what happens to us, that we are merely reacting to surviving in the moment and feeling a bit lost and powerless.

You have the Power of the Divine at your disposal for you to access every moment.  With that Divine Power as your co-creator, decide what you want for your life! You have the power of choice. Not your parents, your spouse, your friends, no one – unless you give it away. Don’t give it away.

Reclaim your power!

Link to the ‘What Do I Want?’ Challenge

Profile of a Narcissistic Sociopath – Charming, Manipulative, Grandiose, Lying, Authoritarian, Secretive, Divisive…

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MOST READ page at TRUTH is “Profile of a Narcissistic Sociopath – Charming, Manipulative, Grandiose, Lying, Authoritarian, Secretive, Divisive…” Do you know one?

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Profile of the Narcissistic Sociopath

Think you can spot a sociopath/psychopath? Think again.

According to experts, this behavior affects 3% to 5% of the population, which could mean more than 15 million people in the USA with these characteristics, or up to 1 in 20 people – higher percentages than one might realize. The people affected are millions more. Are you one of them?

Sociopath-imageIn general, psychopaths come from all walks of life. They’re our friends, lovers, co-workers and leaders. They’re outgoing and persuasive, dazzling you with charm and flattery.  Knowing the profile characteristics might help you to avoid being scammed or hurt by someone you trust. Or, you might already be in a situation and are confused by the others behavior.  Be aware of the characteristics.  Be smart.

What is a narcissistic sociopath?

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Profile of a Narcissistic Sociopath – Charming, Manipulative, Grandiose, Lying, Authoritarian, Secretive, Divisive…

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Profile of the Narcissistic Sociopath

Think you can spot a sociopath/psychopath? Think again.

According to experts, this behavior affects 3% to 5% of the population, which could mean more than 15 million people in the USA with these characteristics, or up to 1 in 20 people – higher percentages than one might realize. The people affected are millions more. Are you one of them?

Sociopath-imageIn general, psychopaths come from all walks of life. They’re our friends, lovers, co-workers and leaders. They’re outgoing and persuasive, dazzling you with charm and flattery.  Knowing the profile characteristics might help you to avoid being scammed or hurt by someone you trust. Or, you might already be in a situation and are confused by the others behavior.  Be aware of the characteristics.  Be smart.

What is a narcissistic sociopath?
  • A narcissistic sociopath is someone with a combination of narcissistic personality disorder and definitive behavioral signs of sociopathy.
  • People with narcissism are characterized by their excessive and persistent need for others’ admiration and positive reinforcement. They generally have grandiose opinions of themselves and believe they are superior to other people. Narcissists are also frequently convinced that they are above the normal responsibilities and obligations of everyday life, so they usually have significant difficulties maintaining employment or relationships as a result.
  • The narcissistic sociopath has this type of personality along with a noticeable lack of regard for the rights of others and a tendency to regularly violate those rights.

One noted difference between a narcissistic sociopath and people with narcissism alone is that:

  • The narcissist with the sociopathy reacts strongly and sometimes even violently to negative feedback. True sociopaths generally do not respond to criticism or care what others may think of them.
  • A narcissistic sociopath is unable to tolerate criticism and needs constant praise, as well as deference from other people. Many with this condition present themselves in the best light possible and are able to easily charm others to gain their trust.

http://www.wisegeek.com/what-is-a-narcissistic-sociopath.htm

THE MALIGNANT PERSONALITY:  These people are mentally ill and extremely dangerous! The following precautions will help to protect you from the destructive acts of which they are capable.  To recognize them, keep the following guidelines in mind:

(1) They are habitual liars. They seem incapable of either knowing or telling the truth about anything.

(2) They are egotistical to the point of narcissism. They really believe they are set apart from the rest of humanity by some special grace.

(3) They scapegoat; they are incapable of either having the insight or willingness to accept responsibility for anything they do. Whatever the problem, it is always someone else’s fault.

(4) They are remorselessly vindictive when thwarted or exposed.

(5) Genuine religious, moral, or other values play no part in their lives. They have no empathy for others and are capable of violence. Under older psychological terminology, they fall into the category of psychopath or sociopath, but unlike the typical psychopath, their behavior is masked by a superficial social facade.

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Profile of the Sociopath

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  • Glibness and Superficial Charm
  • Manipulative and Cunning
    They never recognize the rights of others and see their self-serving behaviors as permissible. They appear to be charming, yet are covertly hostile and domineering, seeing their victim as merely an instrument to be used. They may dominate and humiliate their victims.
  • Grandiose Sense of Self
    Feels entitled to certain things as “their right.”
  • May state readily that their goal is to rule the world
  • Pathological Lying
    Has no problem lying coolly and easily and it is almost impossible for them to be truthful on a consistent basis. Can create, and get caught up in, a complex belief about their own powers and abilities. Extremely convincing and even able to pass lie detector tests.
  • Not concerned about wrecking others’ lives and dreams. Oblivious or indifferent to the devastation they cause. Does not accept blame themselves, but blames others, even for acts they obviously committed.
  • A Sociopath is always “pitting” people against each other. My Sociopath
  • Smear Campaign:  A Sociopath will always be smearing someone and inciting people against each other.  Sociopaths do not want people to like or get along with each other and will try to “divide and conquer.”  They will say odd things to people in the social group: “She doesn’t like you” or “She doesn’t want me doing anything with you.” My Sociopath
  • Sociopath has a strange network of Support People ranging from “consultants,” to skilled-workers, to enabling co-dependents that back him up when he wants to go after his Target. Most of the Support People have their own Psychological problems. My Sociopath. 
  • No conscience. Lack of Remorse, Shame or Guilt.
  • Believe they are all-powerful all-knowing, entitled to every wish, no sense of personal boundaries, no concern for their impact on others.
  • The end always justifies the means and they let nothing stand in their way.
  • Shallow Emotions When they show what seems to be warmth, joy, love and compassion it is more feigned than experienced and serves an ulterior motive. Outraged by insignificant matters, yet remaining unmoved and cold by what would upset a normal person. Since they are not genuine, neither are their promises.
  • Incapable of real human attachment to another
  • Does not perceive that anything is wrong with them
  • Authoritarian
  • Secretive
  • Paranoid
  • Drama King:  There is always conflict going on in a Sociopath’s life and it involves a “bad person,” “bad business” or “bad transaction.” My Sociopath. 
  • Callousness/Lack of Empathy

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Inside the Mind of a Sociopath: 

Excerpt from: “The Sociopath Next Door: The Ruthless vs. the Rest of Us” by Martha Stout Ph.D.

“Imagine – if you can – not having a conscience, none at all, no feelings of guilt or remorse no matter what you do, no limiting sense of concern of the well-being of strangers, friends, or even family members.  Imagine no struggles with shame, not a single one in your whole life, no matter what kind of selfish, lazy, harmful, or immoral action you had taken.  And pretend that the concept of responsibility is unknown to you, except as a burden others seem to accept without question, like gullible fools.  Now add to this strange fantasy the ability to conceal from other people that your psychological makeup is radically different from theirs.  Since everyone simply assumes that conscience is universal among human beings, hiding the fact that you are conscience-free is nearly effortless.  You are not held back from any of your desires by guilt or shame, and you are never confronted by others for your cold-bloodlessness.  The ice water in your veins is so bizarre, so completely outside of their personal experience that they seldom even guess at your condition.”

…or – maybe, best of all – (you) create situations that cause them to feel bad about themselves.  And this is power, especially when the people you manipulate are superior to you in some way.  Most invigorating of all is to bring down people who are smarter or more accomplished than you, or perhaps classier, more attractive or popular or morally admirable.  This is not only good fun; it is existential vengeance.  And without a conscience, it is amazingly easy to do.”

“Provided you are not forcibly stopped, you can do anything at all If you are born at the right time, with some access to family fortune, and you have a special talent for whipping up other people’s hatred and sense of deprivation, you can arrange to kill large numbers of unsuspecting people.  With enough money, you can accomplish this from far away, and you can sit back safely and watch in satisfaction.  In fact, terrorism (done from a distance) is the ideal occupation for a person who is possessed of blood lust and no conscience, because if you do it just right, you may be able to make a whole nation jump.  And if that is not power, what is?”

Complete Article…

Antisocial Personality Disorder Overview (Written by Derek Wood, RN, BSN, PhD Candidate)

There currently is no form of psychotherapy that works with those with antisocial personality disorder, as those with this disorder have no desire to change themselves, which is a prerequisite.

Over time, she says, “their appearance of perfection will begin to crack,” but by that time you will have been emotionally and perhaps financially scathed.

Taken in part from MW — By Caroline Konrad — September 1999